The music that helped define a generation of women is returning in an unexpected form, surrounded by candlelight and reinterpreted by a live string ensemble. Some songs become hits, and others eventually become part of the cultural vocabulary. For millions of women who came of age during the late 1990s and early 2000s, the music of Destiny’s Child occupies that second category. “Say My Name,” “Survivor,” “Independent Women Part I,” “Bills, Bills, Bills” and the group’s other